男朋友和老公的区别
8 Differences Between the Boy you Date and the Man
you Marry
When you’re dating a guy, it’s easy to think he’s perfect. You’re in a love haze, so be careful because there are definite differences between the boy you date and the man you marry. It’s true that people can change, so don’t ditch a guy just because he seems like a slacker at first. It’s okay to give him a chance to prove himself. so make sure you do it with a quality man, not an immature boy. 约会的时候觉得他很好。男朋友和老公之间有很明显的区别，所以热恋的时候一定要注意。人都是善变的，所以不要因为他最开始的一些问题就放弃，还是可以给他一个机会证明他自己。一定要和不错的男人在一起，而非一个不成熟的男孩子。
1.The boy you date asks you to “hang out,” which involves less commitment than a date. He wants to have fun with no strings attached.
交往不到一天的男孩叫你出来“玩”，他就是想要无条件的玩你。
The man you marry asks you out on dates and is clear about his intentions with you. He wants to be with you and wants you to know where you’re headed.
想和你结婚的男人，他的目的就只是想要和你在一起。他想要和你在一起，他想要知道你想要去哪里。
2.The boy you date will say he never wants to get married or have kids, and nothing will change his mind. Don’t try–this is a red flag that he’s not Mr. Right! 和你交往的男孩会说他从没想过结婚、生孩子的事，不管怎样他都不会为你改变他的这种心态。不要在他身上下功夫了---他不是你的真命天子，这就是一个标志！
The man you marry might change his mind about wanting to marry and have kids after he’s met you.
想和你结婚的那个男人在遇见你之后，就已经改变了心意，他想要和你结婚、生孩子。
3.The boy you date calls you mean and immature names to make himself feel like a winner.
和你交往的男孩会别有用意的叫你的名字来彰显他是赢家的地位。
The man you marry fights fairly. He doesn’t call you names or use physical force, no matter how angry he gets.
想和你结婚的那个人会分外的明智。不管多生气，他都不会叫你的绰号，对你使用暴力。
4.The boy you date cares too much about looks, and will tease you for looking sloppy until you fix yourself back up to his standards.
和你交往的那个男孩很在意你的外表，会因为你的邋遢而取笑你，直到你把自己整理成他喜欢的样子。
The man you marry understands that everyone has good and bad days as far as looks go, and won’t hurt your feelings or love you less.
想和你结婚的那个人知道在外貌上每个人都有漂亮也有邋遢的时候，他不会因此伤害你，少爱你一些。
5.The boy you date will expect to have things done for him because that’s what his mom did, and that’s what other girls have done for him, and he doesn’t have to take care of himself.
和你交往的男孩想要你为他做任何事因为他的母亲就是那样做的，那也是其他女孩为他做的，他根本就不用自己照顾自己。
The man you marry will know how to take care of himself: how to cook, clean, do laundry, pay bills, and more–because he’s already a man.
想和你结婚的男人知道怎样照顾好自己：知道怎样做饭、打扫卫生、洗衣服、交账单等等---因为他已经是一个顶天立地的男子汉。
6.The boy you date doesn’t want to meet your friends because he just wants to be alone with you all of the time.
和你交往的男孩不想带你去见他的朋友因为他只想单独和你在一起。
The man you marry wants to hear stories about your friends until he can meet them and get to know them himself.
想和你结婚的男人在见到你的朋友，了解你朋友之前都想要听到有关他们的事情。
7.The boy you date well, you’re too embarrassed to take him to meet your parents, not that he’d ever bring it up himself.
和你交往的男孩，你不太好意思带他去见你的父母，甚至他自己也没有提及过。
The man you marry wants to meet your parents, and impresses them when he does.
想和你结婚的男人想要见你的父母，想要给他们留个好印象。
8.The boy you date is always the one you fantasize about marrying, because he’s cute and all you do is have fun together.
和你交往的男孩是那个你一直幻想和他结婚的人，因为他很可爱，和你在一起总是有很多开心的事。
The man you marry is never a sure thing. You hem and haw over if he’s right, if you should settle down with him, if your relationship can make it long term. 想和你结婚的男人对你来说是一件不太确定的，你们的关系是否能长久，是否能和他安定下来，他是否是你的真命天子你都不太确定。
男朋友和老公的区别
8 Differences Between the Boy you Date and the Man
you Marry
When you’re dating a guy, it’s easy to think he’s perfect. You’re in a love haze, so be careful because there are definite differences between the boy you date and the man you marry. It’s true that people can change, so don’t ditch a guy just because he seems like a slacker at first. It’s okay to give him a chance to prove himself. so make sure you do it with a quality man, not an immature boy. 约会的时候觉得他很好。男朋友和老公之间有很明显的区别，所以热恋的时候一定要注意。人都是善变的，所以不要因为他最开始的一些问题就放弃，还是可以给他一个机会证明他自己。一定要和不错的男人在一起，而非一个不成熟的男孩子。
1.The boy you date asks you to “hang out,” which involves less commitment than a date. He wants to have fun with no strings attached.
交往不到一天的男孩叫你出来“玩”，他就是想要无条件的玩你。
The man you marry asks you out on dates and is clear about his intentions with you. He wants to be with you and wants you to know where you’re headed.
想和你结婚的男人，他的目的就只是想要和你在一起。他想要和你在一起，他想要知道你想要去哪里。
2.The boy you date will say he never wants to get married or have kids, and nothing will change his mind. Don’t try–this is a red flag that he’s not Mr. Right! 和你交往的男孩会说他从没想过结婚、生孩子的事，不管怎样他都不会为你改变他的这种心态。不要在他身上下功夫了---他不是你的真命天子，这就是一个标志！
The man you marry might change his mind about wanting to marry and have kids after he’s met you.
想和你结婚的那个男人在遇见你之后，就已经改变了心意，他想要和你结婚、生孩子。
3.The boy you date calls you mean and immature names to make himself feel like a winner.
和你交往的男孩会别有用意的叫你的名字来彰显他是赢家的地位。
The man you marry fights fairly. He doesn’t call you names or use physical force, no matter how angry he gets.
想和你结婚的那个人会分外的明智。不管多生气，他都不会叫你的绰号，对你使用暴力。
4.The boy you date cares too much about looks, and will tease you for looking sloppy until you fix yourself back up to his standards.
和你交往的那个男孩很在意你的外表，会因为你的邋遢而取笑你，直到你把自己整理成他喜欢的样子。
The man you marry understands that everyone has good and bad days as far as looks go, and won’t hurt your feelings or love you less.
想和你结婚的那个人知道在外貌上每个人都有漂亮也有邋遢的时候，他不会因此伤害你，少爱你一些。
5.The boy you date will expect to have things done for him because that’s what his mom did, and that’s what other girls have done for him, and he doesn’t have to take care of himself.
和你交往的男孩想要你为他做任何事因为他的母亲就是那样做的，那也是其他女孩为他做的，他根本就不用自己照顾自己。
The man you marry will know how to take care of himself: how to cook, clean, do laundry, pay bills, and more–because he’s already a man.
想和你结婚的男人知道怎样照顾好自己：知道怎样做饭、打扫卫生、洗衣服、交账单等等---因为他已经是一个顶天立地的男子汉。
6.The boy you date doesn’t want to meet your friends because he just wants to be alone with you all of the time.
和你交往的男孩不想带你去见他的朋友因为他只想单独和你在一起。
The man you marry wants to hear stories about your friends until he can meet them and get to know them himself.
想和你结婚的男人在见到你的朋友，了解你朋友之前都想要听到有关他们的事情。
7.The boy you date well, you’re too embarrassed to take him to meet your parents, not that he’d ever bring it up himself.
和你交往的男孩，你不太好意思带他去见你的父母，甚至他自己也没有提及过。
The man you marry wants to meet your parents, and impresses them when he does.
想和你结婚的男人想要见你的父母，想要给他们留个好印象。
8.The boy you date is always the one you fantasize about marrying, because he’s cute and all you do is have fun together.
和你交往的男孩是那个你一直幻想和他结婚的人，因为他很可爱，和你在一起总是有很多开心的事。
The man you marry is never a sure thing. You hem and haw over if he’s right, if you should settle down with him, if your relationship can make it long term. 想和你结婚的男人对你来说是一件不太确定的，你们的关系是否能长久，是否能和他安定下来，他是否是你的真命天子你都不太确定。