1.It's hard for me to show kindness to people that hate me. I'm not that evolved.
对那些讨厌我的人好，对我来说太难了。我思想境界没那么高。——《吸血鬼日记》第一季16集
With her own take on "Haters gonna hate," Caroline demonstrated a surprising level of self-awareness. Giving the cold shoulder might not be the most "evolved" thing to do, but simply put: there are some relationships that can never be fixed. Why bother repeatedly demeaning yourself in hopes of a happy ending that will never come? Just cut your losses and move on.
Caroline对于“讨厌你的人就是讨厌你”的理解惊人的深刻。冷淡对待对不喜欢你的人虽然不是最好的方式，但是也很明显的表明了自己的态度：这段关系是没法修补的了。没必要对没可能发生的结果充满希望，受折磨的只会是你自己。遇到这种情况，就该放下该放下的，继续你的人生吧。
2.I may have been some pathetic, insecure mess after the party, but do not mistake that for me being a pushover. Because I do not let guys mess with my head anymore.
那次派对后，我也许是有些可悲、脆弱，但你不要以为那样我就很好惹，因为我再也不会和你们这些男人纠缠了。——《吸血鬼日记》第一季第九集
Midway through the first season, Caroline already started to realize that you don't need a guy's approval to have self-satisfaction. Yes, you can still get upset and hurt by them, but as long as you know when it's time to move on, let it go, or just brush their stupid actions off, that's what matters.
在《吸血鬼日记》第一季剧情播到中间部分的时候，Caroline开始意识到一个人的自我满足感其实是不需要通过男人来展示的。你可以继续因为他们不开心或是被他们伤害，但是只要到了你觉得该放下的时候，那就让这段感情过去吧。让那些男人继续2下去吧，因为那个时候他们做什么已经与你无关了。明白这个道理最重要。
3.What's the rush? Why are you hurrying to get to a relationship that'll never work?
有什么好急的？这感情不会有结果的，你何必呢？——《吸血鬼日记》第二季第四集
Sometimes it doesn't matter how much you want a relationship to work. If it doesn't have a realistic future (like a vampire being with a human), why bother when the ending will only hurt that much more?
有时候一段感情的发展不在于你多么想它能顺利的走下去。如果这段感情拥有一个美好未来不现实的话，那么当它结束时又为什么要烦恼呢？因为这段感情只会给你带来痛苦。
4.I'm too smart to be seduced by you.
我太聪明了，你诱惑不了我。——《吸血鬼日记》第三季15集
Charm can be intoxicating, which makes it all the more important to separate a romantic gesture from real romance. Make sure your head and your heart say "go'"before jumping into anything too quickly.
魅力总是那么令人陶醉，然而懂得区分浪漫的行为和真正的浪漫才是最重要的。在你快速投入一段感情之前，你先得搞清楚这是你的一时头脑迷糊还是真的心之所向。
5.You are not even worth the calories I burn talking to you.
你不值得我浪费口舌。——《吸血鬼日记》第四季13集
For bullies, there's nothing more gratifying than getting a reaction. Don't give them that satisfaction! Hold your tongue and save your energy for something more productive. Pretty much anything is better than giving your provoker the satisfaction of yelling back (no matter how good it might feel).
对那些地痞来说，他们最开心的事就是你对他们做的事情有回应。不要给他们这种满足感！省省你的口水和经历去做更有意义的事吧。无视他们绝对比你生气的吼回去要好得多（不论吼回去的感觉有多爽）。
6.Anyone capable of love is capable of being saved.
会爱的人，就值得被拯救。《吸血鬼日记》第四季13集
No matter how far to the dark side someone might journey, there's always hope for redemption as long as the person doesn't turn their back on love. 只要一个人不拒绝去爱，不论他以前在邪恶的路上走了多远，都有机会被救赎。
8.Anyone capable of love is capable of being saved.
会爱的人，就值得被拯救。《吸血鬼日记》第四季13集
No matter how far to the dark side someone might journey, there's always hope for redemption as long as the person doesn't turn their back on love. 只要一个人不拒绝去爱，不论他以前在邪恶的路上走了多远，都有机会被救赎。
1.It's hard for me to show kindness to people that hate me. I'm not that evolved.
对那些讨厌我的人好，对我来说太难了。我思想境界没那么高。——《吸血鬼日记》第一季16集
With her own take on "Haters gonna hate," Caroline demonstrated a surprising level of self-awareness. Giving the cold shoulder might not be the most "evolved" thing to do, but simply put: there are some relationships that can never be fixed. Why bother repeatedly demeaning yourself in hopes of a happy ending that will never come? Just cut your losses and move on.
Caroline对于“讨厌你的人就是讨厌你”的理解惊人的深刻。冷淡对待对不喜欢你的人虽然不是最好的方式，但是也很明显的表明了自己的态度：这段关系是没法修补的了。没必要对没可能发生的结果充满希望，受折磨的只会是你自己。遇到这种情况，就该放下该放下的，继续你的人生吧。
2.I may have been some pathetic, insecure mess after the party, but do not mistake that for me being a pushover. Because I do not let guys mess with my head anymore.
那次派对后，我也许是有些可悲、脆弱，但你不要以为那样我就很好惹，因为我再也不会和你们这些男人纠缠了。——《吸血鬼日记》第一季第九集
Midway through the first season, Caroline already started to realize that you don't need a guy's approval to have self-satisfaction. Yes, you can still get upset and hurt by them, but as long as you know when it's time to move on, let it go, or just brush their stupid actions off, that's what matters.
在《吸血鬼日记》第一季剧情播到中间部分的时候，Caroline开始意识到一个人的自我满足感其实是不需要通过男人来展示的。你可以继续因为他们不开心或是被他们伤害，但是只要到了你觉得该放下的时候，那就让这段感情过去吧。让那些男人继续2下去吧，因为那个时候他们做什么已经与你无关了。明白这个道理最重要。
3.What's the rush? Why are you hurrying to get to a relationship that'll never work?
有什么好急的？这感情不会有结果的，你何必呢？——《吸血鬼日记》第二季第四集
Sometimes it doesn't matter how much you want a relationship to work. If it doesn't have a realistic future (like a vampire being with a human), why bother when the ending will only hurt that much more?
有时候一段感情的发展不在于你多么想它能顺利的走下去。如果这段感情拥有一个美好未来不现实的话，那么当它结束时又为什么要烦恼呢？因为这段感情只会给你带来痛苦。
4.I'm too smart to be seduced by you.
我太聪明了，你诱惑不了我。——《吸血鬼日记》第三季15集
Charm can be intoxicating, which makes it all the more important to separate a romantic gesture from real romance. Make sure your head and your heart say "go'"before jumping into anything too quickly.
魅力总是那么令人陶醉，然而懂得区分浪漫的行为和真正的浪漫才是最重要的。在你快速投入一段感情之前，你先得搞清楚这是你的一时头脑迷糊还是真的心之所向。
5.You are not even worth the calories I burn talking to you.
你不值得我浪费口舌。——《吸血鬼日记》第四季13集
For bullies, there's nothing more gratifying than getting a reaction. Don't give them that satisfaction! Hold your tongue and save your energy for something more productive. Pretty much anything is better than giving your provoker the satisfaction of yelling back (no matter how good it might feel).
对那些地痞来说，他们最开心的事就是你对他们做的事情有回应。不要给他们这种满足感！省省你的口水和经历去做更有意义的事吧。无视他们绝对比你生气的吼回去要好得多（不论吼回去的感觉有多爽）。
6.Anyone capable of love is capable of being saved.
会爱的人，就值得被拯救。《吸血鬼日记》第四季13集
No matter how far to the dark side someone might journey, there's always hope for redemption as long as the person doesn't turn their back on love. 只要一个人不拒绝去爱，不论他以前在邪恶的路上走了多远，都有机会被救赎。
8.Anyone capable of love is capable of being saved.
会爱的人，就值得被拯救。《吸血鬼日记》第四季13集
No matter how far to the dark side someone might journey, there's always hope for redemption as long as the person doesn't turn their back on love. 只要一个人不拒绝去爱，不论他以前在邪恶的路上走了多远，都有机会被救赎。